Monday, 12 November 2012

Are puppies the new baby replacement?

Wherever I go lately, there seems to be a new trend. Well at least new to me. Puppies. The real canine waggy tailed variety. The ones that grow into much larger and growlier things that require lots of walking and feeding.

Now there are not many babies at any one time at the school where the boys go to school. It is a small village school and a village with a large number of retired people at that, so there may be one or two babies each school year, but rarely more than that.

When a baby does arrive, parent and baby does get rather a lot of fuss for a while as you would expect. Everyone loves a baby, especially when they are newborn and for several weeks, that parent and baby are easily recognisable by the crowd of worshippers; adult and child, who surround them wherever they slowly go.

But in the absence of babies, there seems to have been an influx of puppies. The proud 'parents' march in through the gates, cradling their little babies in their arms and I think that they create more fuss than babies do. Crowds of people horde around them cooing and aahing and the cries of jealous children can be heard all around; "Mummy can we have a puppy, pleeeaaassse!"

Personally, I am fairly indifferent to dogs.  I do like some of them, some are cute, but I have never owned or lived with one and so that makes me a little wary of them.  Add to that a fairly acute allergy to fur, so dogs or any pets for that matter, have not been top of my priority list.

Dogs are wonderful creatures.  They are loyal and can be affectionate.  If they are well-trained, they can be perfect pets to have around children and I can see the health benefits to having a dog too.  All that walking and exercise on a daily basis would be brilliant.

However, and for me it is a huge however, dogs are for life and not for fitness!  Those cute little puppies are more demanding than babies for the first few weeks and after that grow very quickly.  The walking that would be brilliant, has to be done everyday, even on those days when it is cold and dark and rainy.

Whenever we have considered the option when the children have pleaded, we have thought about the restrictions it would impose.  Yes, you can take a dog to most places these days, but there still are places where they are not allowed and this needs consideration if like us, you go out and about a lot.

Then there is the cost.  We have to live on a fairly tight budget and the cost of feeding and looking after a dog is a big commitment without considering the cost of vets bills or insurance.

Fortunately for us, the boys have moved on from wanting a dog.  About three and a half years ago, they were desperate and as I was pregnant at the time, we told them that they were having a baby brother or sister instead.  Thankfully, they haven't asked again since as I certainly can't offer them another sibling.  Now they want a bearded dragon instead.

That would make for an interesting addition to the school playground, wouldn't it?

4 comments:

  1. dogs are great family pets and I couldn't imagin not having one, I agree puppies do generate a lot of ahhhhs but that shouldn't be a reason for getting one, dogs live a long life and like you say need alot of attention. Bearded Dragons are cute too.. I used to have an iguana when I was a teenager and he was the best pet although they need alot of care as well, and are pricey what with all the lights, heaters, tanks, food etc etc

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  2. I've noticed it more and more, when a family has had their quota of 2.4 children, they get a dog. So I actually think there is something in the theory of them being the new baby. I thinks it's when you realise, you aren't going to have anymore. Feel content and happy, but too young not to have something to nurture. I've thought this for a long time. I not feel like I'm ready for a dog too ;)

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  3. I fell in love with the MIL's new baby Shih Tzu at the weekend and now, after years of totally not wanting any pets, I want a Shih Tzu!
    We had dogs all the time when I was growing up and I do feel that it's good for the children to have a pet to care for.
    However, I do think you may be on to something about puppies being the new baby and I'm going to think long and hard before we accept the huge responsibility of a dog. We've agreed to wait for 2 years so we can see if it's still the right decision for the family and not just my hormones going haywire because of the total cuteness of MIL's puppy!

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  4. Haha I'm quite sure you're right - I love animals and could have easily collected a houseful if my husband wasn't less thrilled. We have a cat and I've learnt I'm a cat person now - dogs are far too much work!
    I find the worst is dog lovers talking about them like they're babies - it's exceptionally hard to be interested or understanding when you have a real baby.
    My sister has a huge german shephard - its harmless but doesn't sound it and really puts me off going round. xx

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